JapanLingo

断ることわる

kotowaru

to refuse

N3

How to remember this word

Tie 断る to one concrete moment from your own week in Japan where “refuse” came up — a word anchored to a real scene sticks far better than a definition.

Example sentences

Example 1

isogashikatta node, sasoi o kotowarimashita.

I was busy, so I turned down the invitation.

Example 2

kotowaru baai de mo, riyuu o teinei ni tsutaeta hou ga ii desu.

Even when refusing, it is better to explain your reason politely.